Today we got a later start than we expected for our run. We headed out really close to noon (dumb) when I had actually planned to hit the trail for 10 am, when it was much cooler. At any rate, we put our sunblock on, packed our water, treats and toys and off we went.
I was scheduled to run an easy 4 miles and I was thankful for that. The trail was pretty easy with just a few short hills. It was busy though! Lots of people out during their lunch hour (I assume) and making the best of an incredibly gorgeous day. Felix was awesome. Pointing things out, reading his book, eating treats and just enjoying the sunshine. I had lots of support on the trail. One lady was resting on roller blades and said “You go girl!” and I met a man further on who said, “It’s a good day mom. Way to go.” These little words of encouragement mean the absolute world when you are hitting the wall.
So I calculated the distance so that we would finish right by the park (about 1km from our truck) so that on our way back, we could stop and play for a bit. Well, that was a terrible mistake. After 30 minutes and well-passed lunch I tried to get my toddler out of there. He was not having it. I negotiated as best I could, but in the end I pulled the old football-under-arm trick and off we went. He screamed and screamed (fantastic). People stopped walking and running to comment (thank you) “Oh, someone isn’t enjoying the walk” … “oh yes, it’s hot out for everyone.” No. Ladies. He is pissed because he wasn’t finished on the slide. And I got a sunburn.
At any rate, he forgave me by the time we got back to the truck. Just before he asked if he could “nap.” It was a good day. We ran. Together. Love this kid.
Here are our stats:
Today I had every intention of waking up early (which I did) and heading out the door for a 5 km run. However, I woke up at 6’ish and wasn’t feeling fantastic so I decided to stay put. Knowing that the forecast was calling for snow all day and that I wouldn’t have anyone to watch my son this evening so I could nip out for a run, I knew the only chance I’d have to get out would be mid-morning after he got up.
So after we got up and had some breakfast, we got bundled up and headed out into the winter wonderland that was Willow Park. The temperature wasn’t too bad at all, but the sidewalks were a total mess. It was slippery. The first part of the run he was excited and mesmerized by the snow. It was eerily quiet as the snow fell but despite pushing another person around it was actually quite peaceful. However, he started getting a bit restless more than half-way through so I let him watch “Elmo” on my iPhone. Unfortunately,after about five minutes the darn thing shut off… then the screaming began. Fun times. Lesson: either take a fully-charged iPad (with cover) out for runs or get a babysitter. For me, the babysitter wasn’t an option, so we will be taking the iPad for the next run.
I don’t know what our time ended up being, but I did a typical 5km run; it was definitely slower than usual given the fact that I was pushing a 30lbs toddler + stroller on snow, but I’m glad it’s over for the day. Now I can enjoy my Wednesday evening shows with some treats (I know I said no cheat days until Christmas, but I don’t care.)
Hope everyone is happy & healthy out there!
Anyone who knows me would say it’s karma. A child that is busy 24/7 and throws down temper tantrums more often than Naomi Campbell and Mel Gibson combined. However, knowing that I have a kid who would rather be busy and on the go, I make darn sure I’ve got the necessary supplies to endure our running adventures. Plus, I love how independent and dramatic my kid is!
Here are some things to keep in mind if you plan to run with a toddler:
- If your kid is prone to tantrums, make sure you don’t go just before nap or prior to meal time. Always try to organize runs around a well-rested and fed child. Trust me. Learned the hard way.
- Make sure you have plenty of snacks. Even if your toddler isn’t hungry, bring snacks along for the run. I know you shouldn’t encourage kids to play with their food but if s/he isn’t screaming, who cares?
- Bring toys. Think about this for a minute. We don’t go ANYWHERE without our phones, iPods, iPads etc., so imagine that you have to sit through the most boring 1-hour lecture of your life; maybe something along the lines of public health policy. Now, imagine you have to sit through it without some form of entertainment. EXACTLY!
- Engage your child throughout the run. Now, I’m definitely not saying you try to carry-on a conversation, but point things out along the way. “Wow – look at the pretty trees. What colour are the trees?” etc. Nothing is more boring than hanging out with someone who (a) pretends you aren’t there, and (b) won’t talk to you
- Keep your stroller activity to an hour or less. Seriously people. Your child is definitely not interested in running with you for longer than an hour. Let’s remember that at this young age, their attention span is that of a hummingbird.
- If you want to listen to music, put it on so you can both hear. In my case, I put my iPhone in the cup holder and crank the volume. Yeah, I know it’s a little disrespectful to the people around me but it’s better than being disrespectful to my little running buddy. Plus, I NEVER listen to 50 cent in mixed company!
- Make sure you praise them for good behaviour throughout the running adventure; and treating where appropriate.
- Finally, be respectful of their age and development. Your four/five year old does not want to be pushed around in a stroller anymore. They want to run WITH you.
Now, I can’t speak to #7 from experience, but I was at Sobey’s grocery shopping one day when a woman strolled in with what appeared to be a kid of AT LEAST six, maybe seven. He wanted to get out and walk; she wouldn’t let him. It was weird and creepy. At that point, I’m sure the kid could’ve kept up during the run anyway…
Anyway, hope this helps on your running journeys. It has helped me! Happy Trails!